Thanks itcouldbebetter - will keep searching :)

Trust but verify
Life is full of dualities
Day Night
Hot Cold
Youth Aged
Rich Poor
Life itself is dual
With Death on the other side
Ultimately everything will turn out to be two sides of the same coin
That is why decision-making is so easy for the gambling-instinct and so dreaded by the analytic
On the other hand,people have their own inner worlds,when they speak they speak from their experience,speaking itself is an act of describing the pictures in their mind,so they speak their reality and you have to believe them,if you want to be believed about your world,
To trust or not to trust
That is the question
One of life's main purpose is to search for answers
Well,keep searching
Wish you the best in your journey of exploration

Thanks Dagny :) Thanks for thinking out loud in words here :) Your comment make me laugh out loud :)) Your take on making a clone - yea, true. It's a high I suppose to make some one be just like us - other than our own kid. 

thanks for being here :))

Meera

Meera,

You are simply amazing... What a intrinsic key issue you have dug out to be sure.. Now I am wondering why I never thought of these things so conciously.... so coherently... so in WORDS.

But then you did which is good enough... its like you took up the slack for me...

Why dont people just let be? How can they? They have this deep seated urge to whittle everyone into thier own shape. Havent you seen the assidiousness with which people try to mould everyone else around them? Its like they promised GOD they will produce thier own clones on earth to justify the life they have been given.... or burn in eternal hell...

The utter desperate-ness of their effort leaves me to think this way. Its a life thretening situation for them if you have thoughts... or thought processes... different from thier own. And so they deny all realities other than thier own... They do this because perhaps they think that by denying your reality... they can invalidate your belief system... which will bring them one step closer to make a clone out of you.

Are you confused? I am sure you are not.... you are as whacky as I am...

Loved this piece.... made me think a bit....

And then I love an opportunity to pontificate...

Cheers,

Dagny

Thats an interesting take Santosh. 

Love and 'worthy' cause to hurt others and who say things about kid.

It is all relative - what it *really* means - isn't it - to us personally. how it affects us or benefits us. for that we got to know ourselves first. believe in our self - and question and assess whatever comes our way...world out there throws things at us all the time. instead of questioning others and others motives - which leads us to follow others. Which is actually quite exhausting. (if it matches with what we want/believe then its bliss)

The topic is getting diluted in my mind... :)

thanks for your input
Meera

Thanks Vijay - makes sense. Happy new year.

i donno. 'Believe' is such a strong word. Would you believe every guy who said he loved you? Or who wanted you to join his 'worthy' cause which involved hurting others? Or someone who told you that your kid was bad ? (lets say it was a misunderstanding)

Santosh

Dear Meera,

Civilisation would not have progressed thus far had all our ancestors blindly believed in all and sundry.Questioning beliefs has led to the development of man and mankind.THINK,INTERPRET,ACT,REFLECT AND THEN BELIEVE.

NEW YEAR WISHES,

VIJAY.

hmm...  I question a lot - everything.  I believe... uniless I believe that there are answers and that I cannot question them - so I believe then find them out. Most answers are absolutely absurd. It is all about absurdity, then it makes me feel at ease... . laugh it off. 

I have this necessity to question everything ..... i mean everything ... i don't know why .... but it's there .  ...and it's subconcious . ... I agree with what you say though and I am really trying to follow what you have just said .... I hope I can do that ...